The Counter Culture Marriage

Helping couples build lasting connection in a culture that says to give up

Faith-based marriage coaching for couples who feel disconnected, stuck in survival mode, or like roommates instead of partners.

Take the first step — book a free discovery call to reconnect and rebuild your marriage.

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Our "Marriage Reset" free guide

Feeling disconnected from your spouse?  This guide gives you practical, easy-to-implement strategies to help you reconnect — even when life feels chaotic. Take the first step towards a stronger, more intimate marriage today.

Marriage Reset Guide PDF Download

Resources We have for you

Whether you're just getting started or ready to go deeper, here are a few ways we can support your journey

Listen to the Counter Culture Marriage Podcast

The Counter Culture Marriage Podcast

Real conversations about faith, marriage, and family — designed to help you reconnect, realign, and build a God-honoring life together.

Revive His Heart- 10 day marriage devotional for Christian wives

10-Day Devotional For Christian Wives

A heartfelt guide to reconnecting with your husband and rebuilding intimacy.

Personalized Support through virtual marriage coaching

Virtual
 Marriage Coaching

Sometimes, you just need personalized support. If you're ready to get unstuck and build real connection again, let’s talk.

"If I were searching online for marriage coaches, I would hope you’d show up first — because I’d recommend you two to anyone."

A Wife we coached

"I would absolutely recommend having them on your side — on your team. Their coaching helped us realize that we are a team, working toward the same goal. We just needed support learning how to work better together."

A wife we coached

Hey there

We're the Robinson's,

We're Sheldon and Lea — Christian marriage coaches, parents of three boys, and a couple who knows what it’s like to feel more like roommates than soulmates. A few years into our marriage, the chaos of parenting left us disconnected, misunderstood, and walking on eggshells. We knew we didn’t want to stay stuck — and thankfully, we didn’t.

Through Christ-centered coaching, deep learning, and a whole lot of prayer, we rediscovered God's design for marriage — and each other. It opened our eyes to how men and women communicate differently, how emotional walls form, and how conflict can actually bring you closer instead of pushing you apart.

Now, we help couples like you find clarity, connection, and joy again — through simple tools, practical communication strategies, and a Biblical foundation for marriage.

We believe marriage is worth fighting for — and you don’t have to do it alone.

Want to talk with someone who truly gets what you’re navigating?
Let’s chat. Book a free consultation with us today.

From Our blog

How the First Year of Marriage Shapes Everything — Especially If You Feel Disconnected Now

Feeling disconnected in marriage? Discover how early patterns from your first year may still be affecting your relationship—and what to do about it.

Creeps and Dogs: How Culture Has Demonized and Exploited Your Husband’s Sexuality

Discover how modern culture has twisted the way we view men’s sexuality — and why restoring a biblical understanding is essential for intimacy in marriage.

Why You’re Arguing with Your Spouse (and How to End the Cycle)

Constant arguing with your spouse can create tension and frustration. Discover the reasons behind the arguments and learn how to end the cycle, creating a more peaceful and connected marriage.

Three Lies You Were Told About Your Husband

Uncover the truth behind common misconceptions about husbands. Learn practical insights to improve communication and connection in your marriage, and see how a shift in perspective can strengthen your relationship.

my proven system

Our system is for you if:

You still love each other and want to stay together — you just feel stuck or distant
You're tired of walking on eggshells and want honest, loving communication
You’re willing to learn new tools and show up with humility and grace
You believe God has a purpose for your marriage and want to align with His design

Our system is NOT for you if:

You (or your spouse) have already mentally/emotionally "checked out" and aren’t willing to try
You’re only interested in changing your spouse, not yourself
You’re unwilling to forgive or move past old wounds
You’re looking for traditional counseling for crisis situations like abuse, addiction, or infidelity (we can refer you to deeper support for those needs).

The things We love to teach

Real change starts with the right tools, aligned with God’s design for marriage. Here are 8 powerful things we love to help couples learn:

Using prayer as a tool for unity and healing
Breaking spiritual strongholds through consistent prayer
What Scripture says about marriage roles — and what it doesn’t
How honoring God’s design brings peace and clarity to your relationship
Seeing your spouse as your teammate, not your opponent
Clarifying your shared mission as a couple and family
Handling disagreements in a way that brings you closer, not farther apart
Communicating needs without blame or shutdowns
Rebuilding emotional connection when it feels distant
How to reignite physical intimacy through trust and intentionality

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Marriage Reset Guide PDF Download

Our "Marriage Reset" free guide

Are you stuck in survival mode and feeling more like married-roommates than partners?

The Marriage Reset Guide will walk you through 5 simple mindset shifts to help you break the cycle, reconnect emotionally and physically, and feel like a team again—even in the middle of parenting chaos.

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